Tag: mental health


  • Why Forgiveness is the Ultimate Rebellion When I was nine years old, I was told a story that changed the way I saw the world. It wasn’t a fairy tale. It was a warning. A well-to-do Native woman in Fairbanks had been at a party on the outskirts of town—the kind of gathering where the…

  • How I Faced My Shame and Found My Peace We all have a “red page.” It’s that mental list of things we’ve done, ways we’ve failed, and moments we wish we could erase. For a long time, my red page was full. It held things like poor money management, driving drunk, selling drugs when I…

  • Growing up, there was so much noise. I was in situations no child should ever see. I wasn’t living; I was just trying to make it through my “little life.” By 33, I was lost. I was full of anger and pain. I didn’t even know what a “purpose” was. I just felt like a…

  • You are not an outsider, the shared secret When I talk about the pain our men carry, I am not just watching from the sidelines. I am not a stranger to the dark. I am a survivor, too. I know what it feels like to have your trust stolen. I know the weight of secrets…